Financially Fierce

reconstruct your nervous system's relationship with money to increase capacity to hold, spend and receive.

As much as we’d all like to pretend our connection to money is as noble, easy and abundant as that girl you follow on IG…
Money can be really complicated.

It represents our most primal survival needs and therefore becomes inherently activating to the nervous system.

Mindset work isn’t enough – nor is education.

And it certainly isn’t just about willpower and the correct budgeting app.

Your relationship to your money (or lack thereof) is mapped throughout your nervous system, attachment style and most subconscious beliefs.

Only an untangling and reconfiguration of your complex relationship with money (through nervous system subconscious work, and with respect to your trauma around money), can you increase your capacity to receive, circulate and save money with confidence.

If you’re ready to say bye-bye to awkward conversations (and even fights) about your savings account and holding your breath as you swipe your credit card, keep reading. There’s a solution (that will work) waiting for you.

You are in the right place if you oscillate between these scenarios…

Continuously argue with your partner about money – no matter how many times you try to have monthly ‘budgeting’ coffee dates.
The thought of you asking for a raise, or raising your rates in your business creates an immediate visceral response within you, resulting in you avoiding doing either and still feeling like you’re not being paid what you deserve.
Resistant to spending money as a means to treat yourself, always putting more than enough away for a “rainy day” but never really allowing yourself to immerse yourself in the overflow you’ve created for yourself, treating money like a consolation prize (never enough), instead of a stream that’s always flowing.

You’re hypervigilant about your finances, constantly checking your budget multiple times a day, feeling tense and anxious each time, to the point where you hear your heartbeat in your ears and end the day wondering why you have a headache.
You had an epic injection of cash flow into your business last month but upon reflecting on your numbers at the end of the month, you’re wondering where all of your money went and how you spent more than you received.
You go several days (or weeks even) avoiding looking at your bank account, always on edge you’ll either overdraft or be declined at the grocery store, but you’d rather avoid looking at the numbers than face the truth.

And no matter how much education or advice you seek out from others who seem to be managing their money well, you still feel like you’re at odds with your relationship to money, somewhere in between avoiding, overspending, or completely anxious about the thought of money.

Here’s the beautifully brutal and honest truth.

Without changing the relationship to the money you can be handed a million dollars today and lose it all tomorrow.

You can manifest all day and perfectly manage your money but never see your savings account grow.

You can have money flowing in but feel the tension in your jaw and a pit in your chest every time you need to pay your bills and, as a result, avoid treating yourself and feeling PLEASURE with money.

Your relationship with money marks your relationships with pleasure, security and safety. It’s your foundational way of experiencing life.

So, wouldn’t you agree it’s time to upgrade, untangle and reclaim the Financially Fierce woman that lies inside?

How would it feel to get EXCITED about your money dates – without ditching your daily lattes or ending the day with a headache?
Wouldn’t it feel good to feel so supported by the universe that you can share your gifts, art, voice and services – without having to worry if it “makes sense financially”?
Aren’t you tired of fighting about money again and feeling crappy when your overspend or can’t afford something?

Expect to apply the Financially Fierce principles and experience scenarios like this:

Evenings laying back and feeling the deep nourishment and softened jaw (instead of opening your bank app to check your budget for the 15th time that day), that’s only available when you trust you’ll be safe through any financial challenge.
As your banks statements flow into your inbox the corners of your mouth lift up ’cause you know what to expect and you’re damn proud of the numbers inside.
Feeling confident asking for a raise (that’s overdue), and trusting that you’ll either receive it or be in the market for another job that’ll nourish your soul and pay you well.
Approaching sales conversations with clients with so much ease and certainty, knowing that your rate reflects the value you’re delivering and pitching your price with confidence instead of uncertainty they’ll be able to afford it.
Walking into a car dealer with a fancy latte in one hand and cash in the other, ready to pay for the latest model of your favorite car, no questions asked.
Conversations with your partner about your spending and budgeting habits result in a simple discussion speckled with jokes and gentle kisses (instead of tension and activation).

Your relationship with money is changed, forever. You deciding how you spend, save and invest your money with confidence radiaates through your chest in the form of tingles, and glimmers with warm sensations in your belly.

Your proud. Abundant. And your impact and change on the world is expanding because you are financially fierce!

Financially Fierce

The nervous system training will help you hold, receive and circulate more money in a shame-free way that respects financial trauma, heals multi-generational patterns of scarcity, allows you to FEEL in control of your finances and smiles when you think about spending your overflow.

Every entrepreneur needs this nervous system foundation to make intelligent decisions about their finances, career and business.

When? It’s recommended to put aside 1 hour aside initially for part 1, then 2 hours 2-4 weeks after to complete this process.

Where? Your living room, bedroom, wherever you like!

How? In a 2 part experience you’ll receive education, guidance on how to apply this to your life, embodiment practices and an in-depth curriculum.

The Curriculum

Understanding the nervous system and attachment theory and how it relates to money
Working with money-based triggers
The truth about shame and money
Subconscious and body-based money rituals for more abundance + pleasure
How to mindfully work with your money numbers (in a trauma informed way)
Making empowered decisions about money
Understanding financial trauma and how to heal

Your Host

I was laying on my yellow duvet cover, anxiety in my chest and thoughts running wild in my head.

Why did it feel like money was about to abandon me (like my dad)?

I opened my banks app and saw my savings account snug with the ‘correct’ amount of zeros.

I knew I had rent paid, basic needs met and all was well…

So why the f*ck was I still as anxious about money as when I was a broke hippie backpacking through South America sleeping on bunk beds in questionable dormrooms…

No matter what the numbers did and how much I achieved… the anxiety stayed the same.

Much like my clients – who mirrored their anxious/avoidant attachment styles in their relationship with money.

I’d listen as they’d tell me how it would just “slip through their fingers, with no idea how they spent so much”

Or “Oh I NEVER look at my bank balance!”
I saw the pattern time and time again.

So, fixated back on myself and my path…

I figured that because I had gone from such a disorganised attachment to ever every man that had entered my life up until now, to a secure, safe and loving relationship and full-time job as as CEO and coach.. I was sure I could heal this anxious/avoidant money dance I was in.

This couldn’t be ‘fixed’ by another book about abundance, or a perfectly formatted spreadsheet…

My deep seated , push-pull relationships with money of love, hate and even disgust lay deeper.
In my bones.
In my breath.
In my tissue.
In my nervous system.

So I twisted and untangle, dismantled and reconstructed…

Until one day, as I paid my favourite women-led businesses and purchased the perfect sourdough bread from the local bakery, I realised it had been many, many months since my last freak out about money.

Money was not only neutral, innocent and fun to receive and share but I was so surprised to see my bank accounts growing that I had to recount the numbers.

That’s when I realized that not only does this approach work – it doesn’t require feeling deprived, or buying into “make money while you sleep” schemes or even learning about the stock market and all that boring stuff.

It’s about creating the safe, secure and fun relationship with money that is your birthright.

Now, the time has come to share this wisdom.

It’s your turn to receive.

You’ll walk away from this masterclass with

Clarity on how your attachment style and nervous system are secretly running the show in your relationship to moneyinstead of passive-aggressive side eyes at dinner.
Confidence to know EXACTLY how to reconstruct your subconscious framework about money with love, compassion, patience and enough freedom to make decisions that reflect your most important values.
An invitation to take this work deeper inside a longer coaching program, where we’ll work on YOUR unique situation and you’ll be able to apply this work to the most important and intimate parts of your life. So that you’re not only expanding yoru capacity for money that feels so good a younger version of yourself can barely believe it, but bringing change that lasts into other areas of relationships you have: with yourself, with your money or career, and with your family.

FAQs

How is this different from money mindset work?

Good question! While money mindset work does address our subconscious connection to money, this process goes deeper and addressed underlying, primal patterns that influence our connection with money. Mindset is only one part of the equation.

Money represents our most primal survival needs and therefore becomes inherently activating to the nervous system. Mindset work only scratches the surface of what must change within inorder to see change without.

When we address your relationship to your money through a reconfiguration of your nervous system, attachment style and most subconscious beliefs we shave years off of the time needed to see change externally, and allow you to find sustainable, easeful change.

Sheridan… I’m feeling resistance to this.

Resistance is normal and expected. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re on the wrong path. Sometimes, we look to other people to help us make decisions, especially regarding money, and while this is helpful over a short period of time, it is not long-lasting. Essentially, because it is external validation, it doesn’t help us feel more confident and self-trusting because we don’t come to the conclusion ourselves. If this is you, know that it is normal. Know that it is my intention that by engaging in my work you slowly learn to find the self-trust to masterfully move past resistance and trust your decisions in all areas of life.

Okay… sounds nice but I’m not sure Sheridan… I don’t think I’m ready. It isn’t the right time and something feels icky.

I’m so proud of you for reading all the way down here. Seriously. You’re already doing so much to improve your life and your community and I see it. I see you. Now, if you’re feeling a little intimidated or have a sense of resistance to this practice at this time… Ding Ding Ding. We have struck gold. This is a classic example of resistance coming up to keep you at the basepoint the body/mind has decided is safe.

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